It is hard to believe that Maryland family court is so corrupt. You would think a department of law and justice such as family courts would have the family’s best interest, but they do not. It is a racket meant to make money at the cost of hard working parents and the children. I have watched first hand as an angry lunatic, who calls herself a mother, rant and lie, and get away with abandoning her kid. Maybe it is different in other states and counties, but for Montgomery County Maryland it is a truly shady establishment. Incline to side with a mother and decimate a father just on simple stereotyping. While it may be true that most mothers do care for their children, not in this case. This is about as “bazaro world” as one can get.
How is it that a mother can decide not to take care of her children and the courts grant her this right? A woman who sleeps all day with no responsibility be allowed this? It is true, she doesn’t have to take care of one of her children simply because she doesn’t want to and the courts said, okay and granted her more child support for the other two. She ranted in front of the judge that she wasn’t a babysitter, and though the judge seemed appalled by her statements she was still granted less children to take care of and more money.
Meanwhile the only working parent is strapped with caring for a child while he works a 50 hour work week. And has been raped of his hard earnings. Dad is still barring all of the financial responsibility, essentially paying twice while working. Yet, mother can’t even handle some basic necessities for the kids because she needs her beauty sleep. No doubt she needs it, but heck a 100 years of sleep won’t tame her gelatinous frame and evil outlook. She barely takes care of the children she supposedly still wants. One of them who the mother has managed to alienate from dad for a few years now is starting to shows signs of trouble. He is using his mother’s language when angrily ranting and throwing out threats to kill and find a weapon. Even the police were shocked by the verbiage this child was using.
I guess family courts don’t care about child abuse and/or punishing abusers if they have the title mother. They just pull out their calculators and tally up the tab for the only working parent. The lawyers are even worse. With their ability to see into someone’s finances and savings, funny how the bill ends up that exact amount. Basically raping the only descent person in a divorce. These lazy lawyers barely do their job. They wouldn’t make it in the real world where you actually have to produce results or you’re fired! No they didn’t push the judge’s ear for the truth of this woman’s abuses because they want to get to that round of golf. They want to stay on the good side of the judge for fear of hurting someone’s feelings because they have to work with them. And they know they get away with it, so why work hard. At the end of the day, they get paid.
Meanwhile, I have watched a young girl for a year struggle to find happiness from her feelings of rejection from a monster. She knows her mother doesn’t want her, it has been said many times. She has blocked her daughter from her phone. This mother has hit her and kicked her out of the house several times. Has threatened her on many occasions. Called her ugly and fat repeatedly. And yet insists the daughter come to visit her when it suits her delusional whims.
So here I am caught in the middle of a bad divorce, just for trying to help a man I care deeply for. He deserves better and so do his kids. I am far from perfect, but I am not crazy with BPD and I am not a lair who always has to win. I am just trying to be a good role model for this kid as best I can and I think it is working, even though we have a long ways to go. Amazing the damage a mother can inflict on a child she decides isn’t worth her effort or love. And how a father gets chastised for doing the right things.